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Why is "spicy" not a taste, but a kind of pain?
Your tongue has no "spicy receptor" at all. Capsaicin switches on the same pain channel that detects heat and damage — so your brain receives almost the same signal as when your hand touches hot water.

Answer
Your tongue has no "spicy receptor".
What we call spicy is really a chemical burn. The active ingredient in chilli — capsaicin — switches on a receptor called TRPV1 on your tongue and the lining of your mouth. TRPV1 is not there to taste food. It is an alarm for dangerous heat (above about 43°C) and for physical damage, and it is part of your pain system.
That is why eating chilli hurts, makes you sweat and makes your nose run. Your body genuinely believes it has been burned, so it starts cooling you down and defending itself. TRPV1 is found all over the body, which is why chopping chillies burns your hands and chilli oil in your eye is agonising — same alarm, different place.
So why do some people eat chilli like it is a hobby? Because the pain triggers the release of endorphins, the body's own painkillers, and they come with a feeling of pleasure. Eating chilli is a kind of safe self-harm: your body thinks it is in danger, discovers it is not, and rewards you.
In one line: spicy is not a flavour — it is your tongue shouting "hot!" And what you get addicted to is not the burn, but the treat your brain gives you afterwards.
A stranger fact: birds do not have TRPV1, so birds cannot taste chilli at all. Chilli plants evolved capsaicin precisely to stop mammals eating their seeds (mammals chew and destroy them) while letting birds carry them away — a bird swallows the seed whole, and it travels far before being dropped.
Michael's Thought
So spicy is just my tongue shouting "hot!" Which means I do not actually like the burning — I like the comfort my brain gives me afterwards.
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